Okay, where do I start.
This is to complicated, my story is long but most of my friends already know that I have been abused by my own boyfriend. I have gotten hit by him, litterally [[at school]]. You women that have been abused like I have you out of all people need to read this blog. And LISTEN to what I have to say, don't just let my words go through your ears and not even care. If you don't care then you shouldn't be reading this blog at all.
Women out there that get hit by there boyfriends listen up. 1st off, if they hit you, but they are play hitting you. Make them stop, don't let your boyfriends do that to you. Because then it will become a habit of there's where there hitting will end up getting serious. So make them stop that. My eX boyfriend never did that but I hear from other women that it has happend to them. So avoid that as much as possible. 2nd-ly make sure your not being emotionaly abused either [[I will post the signs up later in the blog]].
Honestly I don't know how I let this happen to me, I thought it never would comming from a guy that I loved to death and wanted nothing but to move on with him. How I didn't see the signs in front of me, I feel so stupid. Everybody else seen them BUT ME. My friends would tell me, "why are you with him, he does this...and he does that..." But I thought they were just being haters [[which some of them were]]. But most of them were right. The guy [[NOT man]] I actually loved fuckin hit me [[sorry for cussing]]. But how can you not, if you got hit or just even to think about it.


1. He is extremely jealous.
2. Wants to know where you are at all times.
3. Gets upset if you spend time with friends or family.
4. Holds rigid expectations of male/female or adult/child role.
5. Expects you to meet his emotional needs.
6. Blames others and you for his problems.
7. Threatens you with violence.
8. There may be many other warning signs.


These are the basic signs of you being abused in the future. Don't ignore them, he will sooner or later hit you. The guy that hit me had 5 out of the 8 warning signs above [[1,2, 3, 5, && 7]]. I wish I had seen it sooner, unfortunatley I was blinded by love or so what I thought was. I guess it was just an illusion that my heart was putting up, that I thought it was him. I let go of him [[of course]] before it had gotten worse, toward the other 4 signs. I am hear to help girls/women through there emotional problems, there abusive problems. I AM HEAR TO FIGHT FOR WOMEN! If you lay your hands on him first [[so they say]] there is STILL away to fight and WIN the battle in court. "There is ALWAYS a way around the law to win." I'ma become a lawyer, and fight for women that is being abused. I'm already studying law.

I will put more on this blog, just give me time. If you have any questions with anything that has to deal with this blog or what happend to me. Let me know. I will answer them.